My first time of change was college, then navigating the time between college and grad school, followed by the time after graduating from Seminary. This time was especially taxing as I moved into my first apartment in Abilene with no job, surviving off student loan money until I got a job during 2009 after the recession in 2008.
For years I knew change was coming; however, I wasn’t sure exactly where it would come. As I was coming out of what I call my first Dark Night of the Soul (St. John of the Cross), I remember driving down the road between Abilene and Robert Lee, Texas to my Summer Youth Interim position in 2010. Every time I drove down that road it was like a symbol, something big was coming soon. What was coming? I did not know but I felt its weight.
What would come was my transition into Chaplaincy, moving to Lubbock, TX in 2011 and eventually the move to Buffalo, NY for my first FT Chaplain job in 2013.
Now I feel the weight coming again, a new transition is on the horizon. I still have some healing to do but I can feel the precipice coming very soon, my time here coming closer to an end, feeling myself going forward not knowing the outcome. As an introvert this is hard, yet there is relief that I am heading back to Texas. I will be coming back to my home-state, near my family and friends. In that thought I find solace. I can't predict that everything will be OK. But I can be sure that coming back is good and right.
Coming back from my trip to Dallas confirmed something I was struggling with, as I wasn't sure where I would be moving. At first, I just wanted to get to Texas but I pondered: what the purpose of moving back to be near family and friends would be, if I lived far from them?
So, I’ve made the decision to move to Dallas, preferable northern Dallas as my brother and a close friend live there. What does the future hold for new friends, reconnecting with old friends, and deepening current friendships? Only God knows.
So, in the middle of all these things I pray God grants me Wisdom (and Joy!). Sometimes I feel I am pushing forward, other time I am being propelled forward by the circumstances of life. Yet, as I come out of my Second Dark Night of the Soul now, I feel my time closing in Buffalo and beginning anew in Dallas soon.
I pray that God is already blessing this time of change and transition, that what is on the other side, though unknown to me, is very known to Him, that it will be better than I think and whatever worries and anxieties I have will continue to fade. I am reminded of the worship "Same God" below, that I will keep my eyes on the giver of light and life, the Rock of Ages. That I wont be distracted by other things in this world but find my joy in Christ, in the thought that God has me in His hands... and as I let go, I might somehow be blessed in ways I can’t even imagine.
Almost There
~ Daniel Brockhan